My Husband is Taking Mounjaro; I’m not joining hym
My Husband Walked Into Our House, and i Heard a Bag Rustle. He was home from His doctor’s Appointment and Held up a White Pharmacy Package in Front of Me.
“Hi, Pretty, Guess what i need to take? Mounjaro,” he said, looking amused. He Put the White Box down on the coffee table. I wasn’t sura if he wand with to inspect or open it. He had Heart Issues, and his a1c was high. Diabetes was the Concern, Not Weight Loss. Jon had to Lose 35 pounds for A Normal BMI. I WOULD NEED A GREATER LOSS, AROUND 65.
“I know you don’t like GLP-1s or Risking Side Effects, but Many People do well,” He offered. I Said Nothing and Kept Typing on My Laptop. This was not a conversation of wanted to have.
I knew he was woried about my health, but he didn’t understand. For Him, My Reasons were Unfamiliar Territory. He sat down next to me and kissed me on the cheek. After a minute of Silence, he said, “Think about it, we is could do it together.” He rose to put the medication in the refrigerator.
I Have too Too MUCH HISTORY WITH FOOD
Think about it. How DelightFully Easy that SEEMED. I SIMPLY COULDN’T ENVISION SUCCESS THIS WAY-NOTE WITH A MIRCLE INJECTABLE. Food and I Have Too Much History, and i come by it honestly.
At 9 years old, my mother left my sister and with for months to love weight. She Spent Most of Her Savings on A Residictial Weight Loss in North Carolina. Mom was Given Housing, Exercise, and Physician-Created Meals. She did well and lost 75 pounds. Back Home, My Dad or Brother Wold Take US Out to Eat. Pizza and Diners Replaced My Mom’s Cooking. I was think and never gave much thought to diets. Quickly, Our Saturday Night Treats Became Daily Outings.
AS I GREW UP, SO DID MY WEIGHT. My mom and i tried every diet from grapefruits with rice to meat days and water. She would Say, “if you want something bad Enough, you will do it.” Of Believed HER. In High School, we tried to cook healthy meals. Chicken, fold, and vegetables were planned. By Wednesday, Eggplant Parm and Spaghetti Made Their appearans.
The author deciding not to go on Mounjaro. Courtesy of the Author
Jon would tel me i’m not my mother’s lamenta i lamented over Calories and Carbs. That was true – i had my own issues.
We Both Lost Weight
Ion can have a piece of fruit for dessert. When Cake or Ice Cream is Avilaable, he Sometimes Chooses an orange. I COULD Never. WHO DOES THAT WENDER FULGE RIPPLE IS AVAILABLE?
My Older Brother Once TRIED to Rip A Twinkie Away from My Mother. She was furious. He tried to block her arm as her hend fought to put it in her mouth. She won. The Next Day, She Bowht Two Boxes and Hid say with a wink at me.
Months Ago, of HAD A DIFFICULT DAY AT WORK. Pizza was all i wand for dinner. IT WAS MONDAY, AND JON TRIED TO HELP WITH STAY ON TRACK WITH HEALTHY EATING FOR THE WEEK, But I Recoiled.
“DON’T YOU EVER TELL WITH THE EAT SOMETING,” I YELED. Ion backed off. I felt awful. After that night, he didn’t bring up diets or again medication.
AFTER A FEW MONTHS, JON LOOKED HEALTHY AND HAD MORE ENERGY. It was a relief to know his diabetes was a memory. I began to cook more fold and vegetables said pasta or burgers. He happy what made of the made and skipped dessert if he knew i was back on my plan. In turn, i didn’t pressure Him if he wand grapes and not cookies. To date, he’s lost 45 pounds, and i’ve Lost 22 pounds, Making Wiser Choices.
Of Believe He and Undersands with Better. There is no Judgment if I choose to the order takeout instead of defrosting the chicken. Jon Will Text with “Thoughts on Lunch?” Or “Smooch! What Wold You Like For Dinner?” From Work. Nor for me, i’ve learned to ask Him for help i ned extra enCougoment. I’m usually glad when i will.
Its been Significant Progress for Both of us, and i’ll take it in love and health.