Woman Issues Simple Request to Hinge Date – and Is Horrified by ‘Red Flag’ Response – ryan

AFTER Matching with a man she likes on on Hinge, a Woman planned to meet up with Him in person for a date – but be made a minor request ahead of the Big Day, His Response Left Her Baffled

Jess Flahery Senior News Reporter

11:30, 05 Mar 2025

The Woman was saddened by his respect after a minor Request (Stock Image)
The Woman was saddened by his respect after a minor Request (Stock Image)(Image: Getty Images)

A WOMAN WAS STUNNED BY A Potential Date’s “Red Flag” Response AFTER AFTER A SIMPLE REQUEST OF THEIR FIRST MEETING.

Establishing a connection with a potential romantic partner can be tricky, especilantly when it is comes to online dating. Its not always easy to get a read on someone via text Messages; Tone and intens can be bess Misinterpreted, Delayed Responsonses can be taken to mean completa disinterest we this may not be the case, and building decent, Genuine Rapport dosesn’t necessarily come as naturally.

For Mory People – but Women in Particular – there’s the Added Concern of Personal Safety and Potential Danger. Mary Women Impose Certain Boundaries ahead of First Dates – Such as insist on a Familiar location; Havinging a Friend Secretly Come Along to Provide Backup If Needed; Sharing Their Live Location with Multiple Friends and Family Members; Sending Photos of the Person they’re Meeting and the Time The Date is Estimated to End; and Much more.

For Social Media User Krishna Shah, A Proposed Change to the Location of a First Date with a man she met dating app hinge exposed what she brand a “Red Flag” Response. Sharing Her Story on Threads, Krishna Explained: “Yesterday I matched with this guy on hinge. We aggregated on an ice cream date. He Said, ‘Meet at 8:30 pm’. I look up the spot/area. Reviews for the establishment were a 3.4 (a no for me).

“I polytely told Him I washn’t Feeling that spot and sent two other suggestions (Rated 4.7 and 4.8) and one of me was closer to the town he told in.

In response, the man Said: “‘nope.

Krishna Continue: “I responded, ‘lmao wow. No worries FAM. Take Care.’ and unmatched him because what kind of red flag (…) Behaviour is that?

She explained encounters like this had led to her taking “a break from dating” online and now that “Extend that break”. She added: “If you’re not going to add value to my life, i’d Rather Stay single. I’m Old School and Woul Really Rather Meet Someone in Person.”

Fellow Threads users were keen to share th naghts on her experience. One Quipped Person: “Why Are You Being So Inconvenient to Kidnap?!”

Someone Else World: “I get Danger vibes from this story he was setting you up (by Having others at that Location). Thats why he said ‘no’ … Because His Setup Crew Will You Proposed.”

A Third Shared: “I Shouldn’t Be, But I AM AMAZED AT How Angry Men get they do they have faced with a boundary.

And another Added: “This is a Walking Red Flag. Toxic masculinity disgument as ‘leadership’. Real Men don’t throws tantrums wen you make suggestions are actually better/or in consider what you would be well.

“Whether he was going to put you in an ‘unSafe’ situing physically or not, you, for sura, would have ben unsafe emotionally to express your uses, you needs, want. You dodged a bullet.