Each country has its own culture and traditions. Especially marriage -related rituals, which reflect the tradition, beliefs and historical thinking of society. In India, while the groom gets respect and respect on the wedding day, some traditions in other parts of the world are so unique and strange that it is difficult to believe for the first time. One such unique marriage tradition is in the country Peru, South America. There is something that happens in Peru on the wedding day, which will be shocked to hear. Here, the groom must beat in public as punishment. And this beat is not a minor, but with sticks-and also by women. Peru’s marriage: Part of the tradition is an age -old tradition in some rural and tribal areas of Peru that women have publicly defeated the groom on the wedding day. It is not considered a cruelty or punishment, but it is performed as a religious and social ritual. The groom may not protest during this ritual. He quietly tolerates everything and it is considered a symbol of his tolerance and the ability to fulfill responsibility. Beat with sticks and sticks. Under this tradition, the groom is brought to the town or the community’s square on the wedding day. The women there are future wife, his mother, other women from the village the groom with sticks and sticks. If the pain becomes unbearable, the groom can stand a few moments and inhale its body, but the ritual does not end here. After a while starting to beat. It is seen as an investigation that decides whether the groom after marriage can take up the responsibilities of his home. It is forbidden to oppose the groom. The special thing about this ritual is that the groom can never oppose it. If he refuses to perform the ritual, it is considered abusive in society. The groom is considered weak, disqualified for serious responsibilities and disabled to his wife. It is also necessary to follow this tradition, as it shows that the groom is spiritually and physically ready to resist the conflicts, problems and pressure that come after marriage. The thinking behind this tradition is a serious thinking and cultural attitude of society behind this unique tradition of Peru. Here it is believed that the man should take full responsibility from wife and family after marriage. He has to face difficult situations many times. Therefore, a symbolic practice is from where the man is usually and spiritually prepared by beating women by women. The spirit of empowering women is also hidden behind this ritual. It is a kind of message that the man must understand the suffering of the woman and have her problems as their responsibility. Does this tradition still live? However, due to urbanization and modern education, this tradition gradually ends in many areas of Peru. But in rural and traditional communities, this ritual is still performed and the residents accept it as their cultural heritage. Many sociologists and human rights organizations regard it as physical violence and unnecessary tradition, while the residents regard it as preparation for collective discipline and responsibility. Conclusion: Tradition or knock – thinking about thinking about Peru’s marriage tradition can look strange and inhumane, but it is a symbol of social balance and responsibility for society there. It forces us to think that traditions in the world are not just rituals, but it reflects the values, thinking and responsibilities of society. While the groom is placed in India on the wedding day in India, the groom in Peru gets the ability to become a man. “Each culture has its own different language – and sometimes the language of sticks, which learns responsibility and strength of relationships.”
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