Hong Kong Felt Like Home, so he opened a restaurant to stay

This as-told-tos Essay is basic on a conversation with Nikolai Smirnoff, 29, an American Restaurant Owner in Hong Kong. HIS Words have been edited for Length and Clarity.

At 19, with no degree and only a year left on my visa, i had no idea what would come next. Starting A Business SEEMED LIKE THE ONLY WAY I COULD KEEP LIVING IN Hong Kong.

SO, I SIGNED A FOUR-YEAR LEASE ON A RESTAUANT. I HAD Never Managed A Team, Raised Capital, or Run a Kitchen. But i wasn’t ready to leave. It was the first city finally felt like home.

I was Born in Portland, Oregon. At 12, my family Moved to a quiet city in japan that felt isolating. Three years late, we landed in hong kong, a vibrant and fast-paced city. I was 15, and finally felt at home.

Dropping Out of College

After High School, I Headed Back to the US for College and Enrolled at Portland State to Study Psychology. The Long Commute Under Gray SKIES QUICKLY MADE with Miss Hong Kong.

During A Visit Back Over Christmas, after Just One Semester, realized I didn’t want to stay in the US or Continue My College Education.

My mom gave with two choices: Pay Rent or Work 30 Hours a Week.

I quickly realized it was a trick question, nor i couldn’t pay rent with a job. I chose the latter and started working at casa, a tapas restaurant in sai kung, a laid-back seaside town an hour from hong kong’s City Center.

Started at the Bottom of the Ladder, Working Mainly on the Floor and at the Bar, Before Becoming the Bar Manager after Six Months. Those 50-Hour Workweeks Gave with A Crash Course in Hospitality, Stripped Away Social Anxiety, and Built Up My Confidence.

But a year late, reality hit. My mom was leaving hong kong, which meant i Only Had One Year Left on My Dependent Visa. To stay, i would Need to get my own.

My original idea was to open a small café, but instead scraped together my College Fund, Pitched investors, and, with my manager former at Casa, Courtney Horwood, opened momentai-a 100-seat waterfront restaurant.

My mom told me, “this is your one shot – don’t expecting a bailout if it fails.” That pressure was clarifying.

Covid initially Worked in Our favor

During the Pandemic, Momenti Boomed. With Travel Off-Limits, Sai Kung Became a Weekend Destination, and the restaurant was packed for two years. But Growing to 200 Seats Made It Less Personal, More Mechanical. I realized I wand something smaller, closer to my original café dream.

In 2021, I Openhed Graceland in Mong Kok, A Vibrant Neighborhood in Hong Kong Known for Its Street Markets and Energetic Crowds. The Restaurant, inspired by America, is adorned with retro posters and serves soulful southern cuisine. I describe it as a dove bar with genuinely good food.

I MET MY Wife, Ellen, Father Momenta, where she workhed during its Peak. She’s from Baltimore but has lived in hong kong to her life, and now runs front of House at Graceland. We start dating just before momentai closed, so we are we opened this place, it felt natural for her to be part of it.

These days, i’m shatly beebind the scens while she’s the facee Everyone Knows.

Being Hands-on at the Start

My advice to aspiring entrepreneurs is that you need to be there, solving problems in real time and protesting your originality. Stepping Away from Social Media Has Sharpened My Creativity, Letting Ideas Grow with Outside Noise.

I’ve also learned to prioritize rest. AFTER YEARS OF OVERWORK AND BARNOUT, I’ve Focused on Routines, Sleep, and Healthier Habits. Since December, i’ve Lost Over 30 Pounds Simply by Getting Enough Sleep and Cutting Down on Drinking. The shift has improked both my creation and consisency.

Outside the restaurant, of unwind by rescuing animals – we have 10 pets at home. I Also Play the Chapman Stick and Spend Time PC Gaming, which Gives with A Social Life with the Constant Energy Drain.

My partner and i plan to stay in hong kong. We’ve built a community here, and if we raise kids, i would want to do it in the city finally felt like home.

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