‘I HAD AN UNPLANNED C -SECTION – My partner keeps saying i took the easy way’

A first time mum has tourned to the Internet for Advice after her boyfriend kept makeing snide comments about her emergency c-section, saying she “took the easy way”

A first time mum has endured months of hurtful comments from her boyfriend, who repeatedly references to her emergency caesarean as “The Easy Way”.

In a Heartfelt Post on Reddit, the 25-YEAR-OLD explained that her son’s births Six months ago was unplanned and frightening. “Things Got Complicated and It Was Scary, but we’re bot Okay Now,” she wrote. While the outcome brought relief, the emotional and physical recovery has been anything but Easy.

Healing has been made of Harder by the comments from partner. “Lately, my boyfriend has made Multiple comments about how ‘I did not really give’ or ‘took the easy way out’,” She shared. Although he claims he’s “Just Joking”, she Says the Words Cut Deeper With Each Repetition. “The More he Says it, the more it stings.”

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The situation escalated recently when he made the comment in front of his sister – who, to the new mum’s relief, immediately shut down. But this is after she confronted Him directly and explained How Much It Hurts, HIS Response was disassive. “He just Laughs and Sayys i’m Too sensitive,” she wrote, adding that brushes it off with “IT’S Real insult, babe.

But for her, there was not nothing easy about it. “It required surgery and i’m still recovering from it,” She emphasked. Despite opening up about how deeply the jokes affect her, her boyfriend continues to make. “Keeps Making the Same Stupid Comment,” she wrote. Eventually, she told Him plainly that she was tolerate it anymore: “i told it really booters with and if he can’t stop, i’m not going to laugh it off.”

His Response Left Her Feeling more isolated. “He got annoyed and said i’m making a big deal out of not.

Her post resonated with most in the reddit community, who flooded the comments with the Messages of Support and Validation.

“C-sections are the literal opposite of an ‘Easy way out’,” One Commeneter Wrote. Another added “You’re not being being over -emotional – there is nothing easy about Awake During Major Abdominal Surgery. The Recovery, while Caring for A NewBorn, is brutal.”

One user offending Advice Many echoed: “If i were, i’d have a serial conversation with him about respectting your feelings and appreciating what you went to become a mother. Him as a partner. ”

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