Mom wonders if she should let her teen daughter drive before her Older Son-Worldies it COULD ‘CRUSH’ HIS SELF-ESTEEM – ryan

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• A Woman is unure if she should let her 15 -ear-op daughter learn to drive before 16 -ear-op

• The Woman Says Her Daughter is the More Responsible and Motivated Sibling, But She Worries The Decision Could “Crush” Her Son

• She shared her Story on a popular community forum in order to see Advice About How She Shed Handle The Situation

A Woman is Wondering If She SHOULD Let Her 15-YEAR-Old Daughter Learn to drive Before her unmotivated 16 -ear-op Son.

The Woman Detailed Her Story on the Popular Reddit Forum, “AM I The A ——?”, A place where reddit users go to see advice on a variety of interpersonal dilemmas. In her post, the Woman explained that hey hern son is excremely unmotivated in samp areas of life.

“(He) Nearly failed freimran year of High School, Shows Little Inclination to Anything Else Other than Play Video Games, (…) Has Been Kocked Out of Various Extracurricular Activities for HIS POOR Attights and Unwillingness to Participate. (I say), “She began, adding that he” doesn’t seem to show any Accountability for his actions. “

The Woman Additionally Said That Her Son Is Currently in Therapy To Help Him Work Through His Current Issues

In contrast, the Woman Said that HER DAUGHTER “Is Pretty Much Firing on All Cylinders.”

“Academics are 90+. Fantastic Attitude. Involved in Extracurriculars. Very well-Rounded. Mathe Matre Decisions.

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The original poster (op) said she is now facing a parental conundrum: Her daughter Will Soon be Old Enough to Get Her Learner’s Permit – But that Wold Mean She Wood get Her Driver’s License before Her Older Brother.

While the OP Says Her Has Has Shown Any Particular “Incline” or Interest Towards Driving, She Also Said She Help But Worth About “The Possible Mental Damage” the which situation has on Him.

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“Maybe Times Are Different, But I Can Imagine This Wouuld Absolutely Crush His Own Fers of Self-Worth and Create Animosy BetWeween The Siblings,” Sheid, Before Adding, “But I (ALSO) DONT THINK IT IS REASONABLE TO JUST HIM THIST THAT REQURESS REST REQUREES Some amount of Accountability and Maturity Otherwise. ”

She continued, “I guess the question (is): (am i the a ——) if i let my ‘matre’ daughter drive before my immurae (…)?”

The Vast Majority of Commensters aggregated that the Woman Should Not Feel Guilty About Letting Her Daughter Get Her Permit If She Shows Interest In Driving, while Her Older Siblling DOES NOT.

“Okay, first of all, the Older one can’t be handed anything in this scenario.

They Continued, “But Most Importantly, Do Not Shackle One Child Because the (Other) Siblling demonstrates Little to obtain his driver’s licensee. That Fast Track to Resentment. Holding the Younger (Child) Back Will Definitely Create Animosity for Her Older Sibling. “

The Same Person Added, “Bottom line? Ywbta (you would be the a ——) you prevent the Younger Sibrom Learning to Drive to ‘Protect’ the Feelings The Older Sibling. ”

“If he is isn’t doing what he needs to get a permit, then the decision is out of your Hands anyway. You can’t take the tests for Him.

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